Follow your heart - with a side of courage and a Dash of Humour đ
Ditch the noise and embrace your true self! Discover how to navigate unsolicited advice, silence self-doubt, and live a fulfilling life filled with courage and humor. Start your journey to authenticity today!
Sushma
9/9/20252 min read


In a world that loves to hand out unsolicited advice â from âsettle down alreadyâ to âhave you tried drinking jeera water for everything?â â following your heart can feel like an act of rebellion. But honestly, thatâs where the magic begins. âš
Because when you do follow your heart, people may raise their eyebrows and sometimes their voicesâ but you end up carving out a life that actually feels yours. Thatâs worth every awkward family dinner conversation.
The heart, though, is sneaky. It doesnât shout. It whispers. It nudges. It says things like: âHey, maybe you should paint⊠or move⊠or quit that job where your soul is withering faster than your office plant.â The problem? That whisper gets drowned out by the noise of societal expectations, Instagram reels telling you whatâs ânormal,â and of course, our dear friend: self-doubt.
And then thereâs fear. Oh, fear loves a dramatic entrance. âBut what if you fail? What if they judge you? What if you trip on stage and go viral for the wrong reasons?â (Thanks, brain.) But hereâs the truth â fear isnât the villain. Itâs more like that overprotective relative who means well but overdoes it. Once you face it, you realise most of the horror stories in your head were written by an over-caffeinated imagination.
As for judgment? People will always have opinions. Some will clap, some will frown, and some will be too busy scrolling Netflix subtitles to notice. Their judgment says more about their world than yours. Build your own little circle of supporters, the ones who clap even when you trip â and keep walking.
Conviction isnât about becoming fearless (spoiler: thatâs impossible). Itâs about moving forward despite doubt. Start small. Take one step, then another. Confidence builds like interest on an investment â except here, youâre the asset.
And remember: following your heart isnât a finish line moment with confetti cannons. Itâs a lifelong journey â full of detours, speed bumps, and the occasional pothole. But itâs also filled with growth, laughter, peace and those quiet moments when you think: âYep, this feels right.â
So let your heart be your GPS, let fear ride shotgun as a slightly annoying travel buddy, and let judgment honk from the sidelines (because who cares?). Youâre on your way to living your own beautifully authentic story.
And Yes ⊠be grateful for every single person cheering you - on your journey of being You.
Thatâs your tribe.
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